30 Days of Kink… Day 2

August 18, 2010

Day 2: List your kinks. Wow, where to start!! I have a lot of different kinks that come and go, so I guess the easiest way to do this is just to do bullet points……… and expand on ones that need it. Rope!!!! Pain Canes Corsets Age play – both as a little and a [...]

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Not always easy….

August 17, 2010

Submission isn’t always easy.  Sometimes it really sucks.  Like yesterday. W made a decision that I didn’t agree with.  In fact, I felt that he was wrong and unfair in making the choice he did.  I was convinced that I knew better what the best action in the situation would be.  So I sulked.  I [...]

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30 Days of Kink….

August 12, 2010

Ok, Ok, I know…. I’ve been quiet, and then I come back with a meme……. But, this *should* be a more interesting one than most are. Rayne over at Insatiable Desires posted this, and I thought it looked very interesting.  Don’t worry, I’m not going to do 30 days solid of this, but it will [...]

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A New Porn Crush – Rain DeGrey

August 4, 2010

It seems that there is a theme running through my choices of porn crushes – they are all strong minded, intellegent women.  Rain DeGrey is no exception to this. But Rain also has another amazingly sexy talent – once she starts cumming, she can’t stop!!  She starts babbling incomprehesably, making no sense and cumming harder [...]

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A hard day making porn

August 2, 2010

Yes folks, I’ve spent another day hard at work, shooting new movies for my site!! But it started out as a much more mundane day.  The alarm went off at 7:30, waking R and I up.  We rather sleepily had breakfast and got ready to head out (only narrowly escaping being fatally distracted by a [...]

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A fantasy… “Watching”

July 29, 2010

Note:  I don’t generally write fiction, but the following story is a combination of a few fantasies that have been floating around my head for quite some time.  I expect it to run over several posts as it is still a work in progress.  I hope you enjoy, and please feel free to leave feedback!! [...]

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Outing

July 28, 2010

I was really stuck on what to write about today, so I headed over to Submissive Journal Prompts for some ideas and one of their questions was “How would you handle being outed in the vanilla world?” and that got me thinking! First of all…. what do they mean by the “vanilla world”?  I guess [...]

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A bondage filled weekend

July 26, 2010

This weekend was great fun, with a lot of bondage – a lot more than I usually get!!  It started out on Saturday morning with me heading to Warrington for a bondage for photographers workshop, which was great fun.  It was run by Rod, the rigger and photographer behind all these images, and was aimed [...]

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Sexual or Spiritual (part bondage)

July 23, 2010

Yesterday, I talked about how the SM side of play can be anything from sexual to spiritual for me, but today I want to talk about bondage, and how that feels for me. For me, there is nothing sexual about bondage.  It is something very, very different.  But only if it is tight, stressful bondage.  [...]

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Sexual or spiritual? (part one)

July 22, 2010

For a lot of people, i think that BDSM is purely sexual – they do it cos it gets them wet or hard.  And there’s nothing at all wrong with that, but for me, BDSM is more than just foreplay.  In fact, I would be perfectly happy if there was never any “sex” involved in [...]

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